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In the coastal areas of Bengal, piracy was carried out by the Portuguese. Their main business was to kidnap children and young men and women from the coastal areas of Chittagong, Noakhali and Bakharganj Districts of eastern Bengal [now part of Bangladesh] and sell them to wealthy families of western Bengal. They made huge profits out of this trade. The wealthy families of Burdwan, Hooghly, Midnapur and 24-Parganas Districts who had a number of unmarried boys in their families(1) would buy these kidnapped girls. If a girl was beautiful and talented, she would be married to one of these sons, and if she was not beautiful, she was used as a menial or house servant. The upper-caste, or kuliina [high-born], families would be put into trouble if these girls ancestry be known. For fear of being declared outcaste, it was common practice that no one asked about the caste of any girl.
Caste rules say that if you touch wood that has been touched by certain castes you are required to perform ablutions in holy water, but that if such castes and upper-castes travel in the same boat or are compelled to sit and eat together in the same boat, you will not lose caste. Thats why to save ones caste it is declared: Brhat káśt́he dośah násti [“In a huge block of wood there is no impurity”]. That is, it will not affect your caste purity to come in contact with others when the timber is very huge.
Once there was a Bhattacharya family living in Burdwan. They were highly respected kuliinas. What to speak of low-caste, they scrupulously avoided even the average Hindu.(2) They even refused food offered by the Vaidyas. Once they bought a slave-girl from the Chandanagar Bibirhat. In those days Chandanagar Bibirhat was a large market for the sale of girls. Boys also were sold in this market. Now, this girl was very good-looking and cultured. Later the family arranged a marriage between their eldest son and this bought girl. Things went smoothly for a few months. Their neighbours came to look over the bride and give her wedding gifts. The bride spoke very little. If she ever opened her mouth, she spoke very carefully so that her east-Bengal accent could not be detected.
But Providence smilingly took a hand. One day, the bride was preparing vegetables. She turned to her mother-in-law and said, “Well, Mother, shall I cut this kadu [an east-Bengali Muslim word for gourd]?”
The mother-in-law held her head in her hands; her eyes rolled up into her head. She was stunned. She stammered, “Whats this youre saying! My daughter-in-law has called gourd kadu. I smell danger and troubles lying ahead.”
Mr. Bhattacharya consoled her, “Wife, what can we do about it now? Although you know the danger, you must conceal it. Dont let this news pass on to others. Now, you know it and I know it, but let no one else know it. If it leaks out, we will lose our caste, gotra [lineage] and everything.”
A similar thing happened to a Banerjee family in Basirhat. They bought an exquisitely beautiful girl. They married her to their second son. One day the mother-in-law was seen sitting out in the noonday sun, crying piteously. She repeatedly moaned, “What a misfortune has befallen our family! Our golden family is burnt to ashes this day!”
The neighbours rushed to the scene. They asked her, “Why are you crying, sister? What happened? Who has brought misfortune to your family? Tell us whats happened.”
The mother-in-law said, “Sisters, I am undone! We are finished! What hell our daughter-in-law is creating! She has applied kohl below her eyes, and is calling a lamp cirág!”(3)
There are many similar stories about those who were sold into slavery by the Portuguese pirates. You should understand one thing more in this context. Many who boast of their so-called purity of caste lost it several generations ago because their ancestors bought slave-girls from the pirates.
If a slave-boy was found intelligent and educated, he would be given the familys daughter in marriage and accommodated into the family. If he was not educated, he was used as a menial or servant. The ancestors of a certain Chatterjee family of my acquaintance bought a young man at the Kelomal market in Tamluk Subdivision. Tamluk was a big slave market in those days. The big market for the sale of boys was Kelomal, while the girls were sold at Radhamani Bazaar. (This was the market which was famous for delicious sweets.) That Chatterjee family bought a fifteen-year-old boy from the Kelomal market. He was given the responsibilities of a cowherd. His job was to take care of the cows and clean the shed, and in between these chores he attended classes in a Sanskrit school. When asked, the boy used to say in an east-Bengali accent, “I am a fisher-boy.” After a few years, the boy got his degree in Sanskrit studies. As Mr. Chatterjee failed to find a suitable match for his daughter, he gave his daughter in marriage to this youth. After the marriage, people came and said to him, “In the past you said that you were a fisher-boy, so how is it you could marry a Brahman girl?”
He answered in a Burdwan accent, “Im actually a Brahman of the Rarhi caste, but as I was tending cows and was not educated, my patron told me that I should introduce myself as a fisher-boy. But now that I am educated, I have no hesitation to call myself a Brahman.”
One more thing I have to say. In those days there were many very beautiful, talented girls and handsome boys who were purchased by weight in exchange for silver bullion. It is said that sometimes kings and nobles used to purchase women for their weight in gold. These purchased youths were used as slaves or adopted as sons or sons-in-law, and the girls became menials or were adopted as daughters-in-law.
Footnotes
(1) A situation that developed because under the kuliina system (see “Womens Rights in Ráŕh Section B”) there was a shortage of marriageable girls within some castes. –Trans.
(2) Nava shákha or “nine castes” of the caste hierarchy. –Trans.
(3) The style of applying kohl and the use of the word cirág (oil lamp) betray the girls Muslim upbringing. –Trans.